Breaks up have always been difficult for me…I use the word “always” as if I have been broken up with many, many times but, in actuality, I would say I’ve experienced actual heartbreak 3 times (I guess the third time was not the charm). I am not here to write my story about what happened or what didn’t happen in my fall out with the last person I was dating but, man, has it been hard to recover and heal from this break up. Jens Lekman once sang, “a broken heart is not the end of the world.” But, a breakup during a pandemic? That hits differently. Regardless, Jens was right: the world doesn’t stop for a heartbreak. So what does a person like me have to do to work through this separation? Compile a fucking mix.

I didn’t want to piece a break-up mix that was anxiously angsty or a flippant “fuck you” because everyone has their issues and traumas to work through and sometimes things simply just don’t work out. And that’s okay. Today marks a month since the breakup. I am so fucking lucky to have a community of supportive friends, family (dogs included) and a roommate and his cat to hear me out during this time. Oh, and my therapist! However, during the first two weeks of the break up, I turned into a living memory album that replayed every single bit from this past relationship. I cried at least once a day then, too. To seek comfort in these moments, I busted out my handy, dandy headphones to navigate myself through it all. I may no longer be a part of a partnership but I have music as my audio companion- that’s why I created a mix that would lift me up when my heart was feeling heavy (and, no, it’s not because of the pandan bread I made); I can’t be the only one experiencing heartbreak or grief during this time. And since I can’t give or receive hugs, I thought I’d give this a try.

This mix doesn’t have a name but there are some subtle mantras scattered throughout. I am so used to repeating positive affirmations to the students I work with that sometimes I forget I need words to live by too. And sometimes words aren’t needed when it comes to music. You just have to open your ears, feel the vibrations and hopefully you’ll feel something positive within yourself and the world. I understand that finding positivity in life right now is pretty bleak so I hope you are able to build upon your connections using an app(s) of your choice, video-chatting with someone whom you trust and can help you crack a smile, writing to someone that will actually write back to you in a timely manner or this- a collection of tunes to guide you wherever you are. So, “here is a mix” for you and I hope you know and feel it in your body as you’re dancing or tapping away that things will eventually be okay in time. Or maybe it won’t get better…I dunno but, at least you’ll have this to turn on if it helps.

———————–TRACKLIST——————————-
Panda Bear - Comfy in Nautica
Sufjan Stevens & Lowell Brams - What It Takes
Photay - Warmth in the Coldest Acre
Lucky Pierre - Jim Dodge Dines at the Penguin Cafe
Caribou - Home
Sparrows - Moon
Monster Rally - Sunshine
Humble B Flat - Three Sounds (feat. Rampelli)
Nujabes - Kujaku (Transcendence)
Sweet William - Horta
The Whitest Boy Alive - Burning
Perfume Genius - On The Floor
Rostam - Bike Dream
John Wizards - Iyongwe
The Tough Alliance - Neo Violence
Discovery - Swing Tree
Haruomi Hosono - Sports Men
Sonic Boom - The Way That You Live
Animal Collective - Brother Sport
Yaeji - WAKING UP DOWN
Austra - I Am Not Waiting
Peggy Gou - Starry Night
Clive Tanaka y su Orquesta - Neu Chicago
Geotic - Swiss Bicycle
dj poolboi - Leave Here
Four Tet - Lush
Madeleine Cocolas - Let’s Talk About You
Dan Deacon - Weeping Birch
Julianna Barwick - Prizewinning
Klaus Schønning - Light Beams

so I just wanted to post this picture of me and Carly Rae showing what “emotion” looks like.

so I just wanted to post this picture of me and Carly Rae showing what “emotion” looks like.

artist: PETITE MELLER

song title: BACKPACK

artist: JAAKKO EINO KALEVI

song title: DON’T ASK ME WHY

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STREAM | DOWNLOADTRACKLIST:• BRIAN ENO - The Big Ship
• BEACH HOUSE - Sparks
• SON LUX - Among The Living
• SEA OLEENA - Paths
• GROUPER - Clearing
• DOUGLAS DARE - Whelm
• GEM CLUB - Soft Season
• DAVID LYNCH - I’m Waiting Here (feat. LYKEE LI)
•...

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TRACKLIST:

  1. BRIAN ENO - The Big Ship
  2. BEACH HOUSE - Sparks
  3. SON LUX - Among The Living
  4. SEA OLEENA - Paths
  5. GROUPER - Clearing
  6. DOUGLAS DARE - Whelm
  7. GEM CLUB - Soft Season
  8. DAVID LYNCH - I’m Waiting Here (feat. LYKEE LI)
  9. PORCELAIN RAFT - Half Awake
  10. MEMORY TAPES - House on Fire
  11. ODAWAS - Harmless Lover’s Discourse
  12. JJ - Be Here Now

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STREAM | DOWNLOADTRACKLIST:• SKYLAR SPENCE - Can’t You See
• STRANGE NAMES - I Can’t Control Myself
• MIAMI HORROR - Love Like Mine (feat. CLEOPOLD)
• WAYLAYERS - Sleepwalking
• DJANGO DJANGO - Reflections
• UNKNOWN MORTAL ORCHESTRA - Can’t Keep...

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TRACKLIST:

  1. SKYLAR SPENCE - Can’t You See
  2. STRANGE NAMES - I Can’t Control Myself
  3. MIAMI HORROR - Love Like Mine (feat. CLEOPOLD)
  4. WAYLAYERS - Sleepwalking
  5. DJANGO DJANGO - Reflections
  6. UNKNOWN MORTAL ORCHESTRA - Can’t Keep Checking My Phone
  7. NEON INDIAN - Annie
  8. BEN BROWNING - Don’t Wait Your Turn
  9. LONELY BOY - Future Regret
  10. LITTLE BOOTS - Better in the Morning
  11. TOUCH SENSITIVE - Teen Idols
  12. CHEROKEE - Teenage Fantasy (feat. GIBBZ)
  13. CARIBOU - Can’t Do Without You
  14. LATE NITE TUFF GUY - Our First Kiss
  15. MAJID JORDAN - All I Do
  16. THE 2 BEARS - Angel (Touch Me)
  17. SAY LOU LOU X LINDSTROM - Games for Girls (Extended Mix)
  18. ALUNAGEORGE - Supernatural
  19. TODD RUNDGREN, EMIL NIKOLAISEN, HANS-PETER LINDSTROM - Put Your Arms Around Me
  20. PANDA BEAR - Principe Real
  21. YOUNG EJECTA - Mistress
  22. CLASS ACTRESS - High On Love
  23. CARLY RAE JEPSEN - Gimmie Love
  24. PURO INSTINCT - W.Y.L.
  25. SHURA - Indecision
  26. BROTHERTIGER - This Must Be the Place (Naive Melody)

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